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Lane Anderson's avatar

“Normalize maternal ambivalence” !

I wish I had this book in my 20’s and 30’s. No one talks about “not being sure” about the biggest decision of your whole life—financially, emotionally, physically. I found this so relatable!

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Allison Lichter's avatar

YES. This was a part of Ruthie's story that I found so important...its one of those mysteries of adulthood that needs even more attention.

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Aine Zimmerman's avatar

I appreciated reading about the author’s interest in understanding the mothers in her family that came before her, and their traumas/options/limitations imposed on them, as well as the role of mental health issues.

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Allison Lichter's avatar

Thank you so much for reading Aine! I also really enjoyed thinking with @Ruthie Ackerman about family histories and mythologies, and the standards we hold our ancestors to. A really rich topic!

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Ruthie Ackerman's avatar

Thank you, Aine! Such an important conversation and something I wish more of us spoke about <3

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Ruthie Ackerman's avatar

I loved our conversation so much, Allison!

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Allison Lichter's avatar

It was so great to connect!

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