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I loved this book. I felt seen as a Filipina and a mother, a feeling I don’t find very often.

The moments of parenthood that bring me pleasure are when I get to model behavior instead of setting rules. Mothering taught me that to be the best mom I can be, I need to work on me. My role is not to mold an extension of me, my kids are whole humans that can see their mom is working on being a good person and hopefully they can learn to work on being the best version of themselves too.

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Thank you so much for sharing these thoughts Stephanie! I really appreciated and learned so much from Angela’s description of Filipinx history

in the US and her experience of motherhood. And it’s something I strive for too — to let my kiddo become who she is without layers of pressure weighing on her!

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Filipinos make up so much of the US and so closely tied to this country's past and present, I still scratch my head why it's not a more well known story. Even I get surprised by learning about this country's relationship with the Philippines and I'm a first-generation!

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This is beautiful. Some of my most cherished moments have been nursing my babies and growing (reparenting myself) alongside my tween.

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